One of the most overlooked forms of abuse comes from the alcoholic parent. The family of alcoholics struggle with a myriad of forms of abuse from verbal to emotional to physical. This message is a must for those living with an alcoholic.
Anxiety is a sub-catagory of Fear / Phobias. How do you deal with an anxiety disorder? What are the roots of this disorder? This message is a must for those struggling with anxiety issues.
"Passivity" is a common aggressive tool for some... thus known as "passive-aggressiveness." The paper examines the reasons someone chooses to respond "passively" ... and how to break out of this passivity.
"Performance Orientation" is a form of false identity. Frequently when the formative years experience a lack of affirmation and approval, that individual will turn to "performance" to gain the necessary "approval, acceptance and affirmation."
Pornography is a form of "disconnection" from reality. Many use this form to "medicate" painful issues they are going through, only to find that they are "caught" in the web of this damaging habit. This paper examines how to break free from Pornography.
Usually due to a lack of receiving respect during childhood, an individual struggles with authorities the rest of their life. This message deals with the ingredients behind "Rebellion" and how to deal with Rebellion.
For the one who struggles with injuring yourself – pulling your hair, cutting yourself, banging your head, hitting yourself, burning yourself, picking scabs, scratching yourself, etc... this paper examines the issues of self injury and how to break free from it.
This message was a result of the passing of a dear friend and church member. When I returned home from speaking at a conference, I shared this message with the church in an effort to help the husband and three children left behind by their wife and mother.
Decision Making is learned early in life. When this process is not nurtured, a "codependency" is usually the result. This paper examines practical steps to making decisions.
New worlds open up to you when you get to know new people. This paper is more of a summary paper on different "socialization" skills needed to "connect" with others... communication, self-disclosure, overcoming fears & shyness, emphatic listening, etc.
Offenses occur every time there is an unfulfilled expectation or a violated right.. Offenses have a surface cause, and a deeper cause. This paper discusses the deeper causes of an offense.
Inner Circle is 2-3 confidants that aid you in personal accountability; Outer Circle is a small group that aids you in an area of ministry. This paper discusses how to develop both of these groups.
Spiritual Fathering is different from discipleship, mentoring, or coaching. This paper examines ten truths that comprise the discipline known as "Spiritual Fathering." Fathering is the vehicle that God uses to pass "inheritance" from one to another therefore is key to reaching Destiny.