Dr. Bob Nichols

13 Negative Parenting Styles

13 Negative Parenting Styles

Dr. Bob Nichols

Abandonment.PDF

Abandonment can be achieved without someone leaving... you can be "present-absent." This message is a must for those that struggle with Abandonment.

Dr. Bob Nichols

Abuse - The Alcoholic Parent.PDF

One of the most overlooked forms of abuse comes from the alcoholic parent. The family of alcoholics struggle with a myriad of forms of abuse from verbal to emotional to physical. This message is a must for those living with an alcoholic.
Heart Issues Messages
Heart Issues Messages

Dr. Bob Nichols

Abuse in Relationships

This message examines the different types of abuse encountered within relationships... verbal abuse, emotional abuse and physical abuse. This also examines what you do to
Heart Issues Messages
Heart Issues Messages

Dr. Bob Nichols

Activating Forgiveness.pdf

How do you say you are sorry? How to you apologize so that the other person wants to forgive you? This message examines the 5 keys to an effective apology.

Dr. Bob Nichols

Activating Forgiveness.PowerPoint

How do you say you are sorry? How to you apologize so that the other person will forgive you? This message examines 5 keys to an effective apology.

Dr. Bob Nichols

Anger Management: Practical Steps

Practical steps for anger management

Dr. Bob Nichols

Anxiety Struggles.Pdf

Anxiety is a sub-catagory of Fear / Phobias. How do you deal with an anxiety disorder? What are the roots of this disorder? This message is a must for those struggling with anxiety issues.

Dr. Bob Nichols

Approval

Approval is one of the three anchors for your identity. This message examine the three parts of approval... the most significant of all the identity needs.

Dr. Bob Nichols

Boundaries

Understanding Boundaries from a Biblical perspective
Heart Issues Messages
Heart Issues Messages

Dr. Bob Nichols

Building a Safe Place

The priority of a leaders is to provide a "safe place" for his follower to grow and relate. This message examines what it takes to build a safe place.
Heart Issues Messages
Heart Issues Messages

Dr. Bob Nichols

Building a Safe Place. PowerPoint

The priority for a leader is to build a safe place for his followers to grow and relate. What comprises a safe place? How does a leader build a safe place?
Heart Issues Messages
Heart Issues Messages

Dr. Bob Nichols

Building the Map

This pdf examines the actual development of the Soul Map... building the map...

Dr. Bob Nichols

Children - gifted and suicidal adolecents

Children - gifted and suicidal adolecents

Dr. Bob Nichols

Children - gifted and suicidal adolescents

Children - gifted and suicidal adolescents

Dr. Bob Nichols

Children - hostage in the home

When children are not allowed to socialize, what is the result? This is a common practice among some religious groups, especially home schoolers.

Dr. Bob Nichols

Children and Separation

When parents separate, what happens to children? This document examines the results and affects of parental separation on their children.

Dr. Bob Nichols

Children's anxieties, fears and phobias

Children's anxieties, fears and phobias
Heart Issues Messages
Heart Issues Messages

Dr. Bob Nichols

Christ-O-Therapy

This paper examines the counseling model of "Christ-O-Therapy"

Dr. Bob Nichols

Circle of Life

This message describes keys to moving forward in life... what it takes to go to a higher level... the next season.

Dr. Bob Nichols

Coping

Coping is a means... not the end...i.e. for many "discipline" is the end... but it is really a coping mechanism to get us to "freedom." This message is taken from the life of Gideon.
Heart Issues Messages
Heart Issues Messages

Dr. Bob Nichols

Dealing With Anger

Dealing With Anger
Heart Issues Messages
Heart Issues Messages

Dr. Bob Nichols

Dealing With Depression

DWD
Heart Issues Messages
Heart Issues Messages

Dr. Bob Nichols

Dealing With Grief and Breavement

Dealing with grief and Brev
Heart Issues Messages
Heart Issues Messages

Dr. Bob Nichols

Dealing With Identity Struggles

Dealing With Identity Struggles
Heart Issues Messages
Heart Issues Messages

Dr. Bob Nichols

Dealing With Inferiority

Dealing with Inf.
Heart Issues Messages
Heart Issues Messages

Dr. Bob Nichols

Dealing With Jealousy

Dealing With Jealousy
Heart Issues Messages
Heart Issues Messages

Dr. Bob Nichols

Dealing With Just Coping

Dealing with just coping
Heart Issues Messages
Heart Issues Messages

Dr. Bob Nichols

Dealing With Passivity

"Passivity" is a common aggressive tool for some... thus known as "passive-aggressiveness." The paper examines the reasons someone chooses to respond "passively" ... and how to break out of this passivity.
Heart Issues Messages
Heart Issues Messages

Dr. Bob Nichols

Dealing With Performance

"Performance Orientation" is a form of false identity. Frequently when the formative years experience a lack of affirmation and approval, that individual will turn to "performance" to gain the necessary "approval, acceptance and affirmation."
Heart Issues Messages
Heart Issues Messages

Dr. Bob Nichols

Dealing With Pornography

Pornography is a form of "disconnection" from reality. Many use this form to "medicate" painful issues they are going through, only to find that they are "caught" in the web of this damaging habit. This paper examines how to break free from Pornography.
Heart Issues Messages
Heart Issues Messages

Dr. Bob Nichols

Dealing With Poverty

Whether a lot... or a little... the poverty mindset never has enough. This study examines how you break through this type of mentality.
Heart Issues Messages
Heart Issues Messages

Dr. Bob Nichols

Dealing With Rebellion

Usually due to a lack of receiving respect during childhood, an individual struggles with authorities the rest of their life. This message deals with the ingredients behind "Rebellion" and how to deal with Rebellion.
Heart Issues Messages
Heart Issues Messages

Dr. Bob Nichols

Dealing With Rejection

One of the three biggest delivers of relationship pain is "Rejection." This paper examines what to do if you struggle with Rejection.
Heart Issues Messages
Heart Issues Messages

Dr. Bob Nichols

Dealing With Self Injury

For the one who struggles with injuring yourself – pulling your hair, cutting yourself, banging your head, hitting yourself, burning yourself, picking scabs, scratching yourself, etc... this paper examines the issues of self injury and how to break free from it.
Heart Issues Messages
Heart Issues Messages

Dr. Bob Nichols

Dealing With The Need To Trust

What do you do when Trust has been broken? How is trust reconnect? This message deals with reconnecting trust.
Heart Issues Messages
Heart Issues Messages

Dr. Bob Nichols

Dealing With Tough Times

This message was a result of the passing of a dear friend and church member. When I returned home from speaking at a conference, I shared this message with the church in an effort to help the husband and three children left behind by their wife and mother.
Heart Issues Messages
Heart Issues Messages

Dr. Bob Nichols

Dealing With Vindictiveness

Dealing with vindictiveness studies the response of "pain for pain."

Dr. Bob Nichols

Destructive Behaviors: Anger Syndrome

Anger Syndrome

Dr. Bob Nichols

Destructive Behaviors: Anger Syndrome

Anger Syndrome

Dr. Bob Nichols

Destructive Behaviors: Anorexia Nervosa

Anorexia Nervosa

Dr. Bob Nichols

Destructive Behaviors: Bipolar

Bipolar

Dr. Bob Nichols

Destructive Behaviors: Codependency

Codependency

Dr. Bob Nichols

Destructive Behaviors: Depression

Depression

Dr. Bob Nichols

Destructive Behaviors: Disassociative Identity Disorder

Disassociative Disorder

Dr. Bob Nichols

Destructive Behaviors: Self Pity

Self Pity

Dr. Bob Nichols

Destructive Behaviors: Suicidal Self and Bipolar

Suicidal Self & Bipolar
Heart Issues Messages
Heart Issues Messages

Dr. Bob Nichols

Empathetic Listening

This paper examines the counseling skill of listening so as to "connect" with the client
Heart Issues Messages
Heart Issues Messages

Dr. Bob Nichols

Father: Approval

Father: Approval
Heart Issues Messages
Heart Issues Messages

Dr. Bob Nichols

Father: Honor and Respect

Father: Honor and Respect
Heart Issues Messages
Heart Issues Messages

Dr. Bob Nichols

Father: Responsibility and Lawlessness

Responsibility and Lawlessness
Heart Issues Messages
Heart Issues Messages

Dr. Bob Nichols

Father: Security

Father: Security
Heart Issues Messages
Heart Issues Messages

Dr. Bob Nichols

Fifteen Characteristics of Healthy Relationships.mp3

This outline provides fifteen characteristics of healthy relationships.
Heart Issues Messages
Heart Issues Messages

Dr. Bob Nichols

Frustration to Hostile Anger

Examines handing hostile anger in clients
Heart Issues Messages
Heart Issues Messages

Dr. Bob Nichols

Heart Writings

This paper examines how "heart writings" occur and what they do. From their place "on your heart" they can affect your thoughts, your conclusions and your derived behavior.

Dr. Bob Nichols

Helper Therapy

Helper Therapy
Heart Issues Messages
Heart Issues Messages

Dr. Bob Nichols

Issues: Emotional Stages of Divorce

Emotional Stages of Divorce
Heart Issues Messages
Heart Issues Messages

Dr. Bob Nichols

Issues: Fear

Issues: Fear
Heart Issues Messages
Heart Issues Messages

Dr. Bob Nichols

Issues: Understanding Trust

Issues: Understanding Trust
Series
Series
Life Skills
Life Skills

Dr. Bob Nichols

Life Skills: Activating Forgiveness

LS: Activating Forgiveness
Series
Series
Life Skills
Life Skills

Dr. Bob Nichols

Life Skills: Activating Forgiveness

LS: Activating Forgiveness
Series
Series
Life Skills
Life Skills

Dr. Bob Nichols

Life Skills: Anger In Intimate Relationships

LS: Anger in Intimate Relationships
Series
Series
Life Skills
Life Skills

Dr. Bob Nichols

Life Skills: Conflict Resolution

LS: Conflict Resolution
Series
Series
Life Skills
Life Skills

Dr. Bob Nichols

Life Skills: Connecting

LS: Conflict Resolution
Series
Series
Life Skills
Life Skills

Dr. Bob Nichols

Life Skills: Decision Making

Decision Making is learned early in life. When this process is not nurtured, a "codependency" is usually the result. This paper examines practical steps to making decisions.
Series
Series
Life Skills
Life Skills

Dr. Bob Nichols

Life Skills: Developing Social Skills

New worlds open up to you when you get to know new people. This paper is more of a summary paper on different "socialization" skills needed to "connect" with others... communication, self-disclosure, overcoming fears & shyness, emphatic listening, etc.
Series
Series
Heart Issues Messages
Heart Issues Messages

Dr. Bob Nichols

Life Skills: Handling An Offence

Offenses occur every time there is an unfulfilled expectation or a violated right.. Offenses have a surface cause, and a deeper cause. This paper discusses the deeper causes of an offense.
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Life Skills
Life Skills

Dr. Bob Nichols

Life Skills: Imparting Worth

Imparting worth is the end result of meeting a legitimate need in a legitimate way. When a need is met correctly, value is imparted.
Series
Series
Life Skills
Life Skills

Dr. Bob Nichols

Life Skills: Inner Circle

Inner Circle is 2-3 confidants that aid you in personal accountability; Outer Circle is a small group that aids you in an area of ministry. This paper discusses how to develop both of these groups.
Series
Series
Life Skills
Life Skills

Dr. Bob Nichols

Life Skills: Trusting

LS: Trusting
Series
Series
Life Skills
Life Skills

Dr. Bob Nichols

Life Skills: Why Trust

This paper examines what happens when trust is disconnected... and how and when to reconnect that trust.

Dr. Bob Nichols

Lost Places of The Soul

LPOS
Series
Series
Destructive Behaviors
Destructive Behaviors

Dr. Bob Nichols

Overcoming Anxiety and Fear

This paper examines the primary causes of Fear and suggests some means to overcome Fear

Dr. Bob Nichols

Possible To Start Over

PTSO

Dr. Bob Nichols

Process of Judgment

POJ

Dr. Bob Nichols

PSTD in children and adolescents

PSTD in children and adolescents

Dr. Bob Nichols

Questions to Ask before you Reconnect a Broken Relationship.mp3

This audio discusses questions that you need to answer before you consider reconnecting a broken relationship.

Dr. Bob Nichols

Reconnecting Trust.mp3

How do you reconnect Trust? What is the process, once you have been burned in a relationship to reconnecting trust?
Series
Series
Destructive Behaviors
Destructive Behaviors

Dr. Bob Nichols

Removing Shame

This paper examines the primary causes of Shame and how to remove shame.

Dr. Bob Nichols

Role Playing

R.P.

Dr. Bob Nichols

Soul Mapping

SM

Dr. Bob Nichols

Statute Of Limitation

SOL

Dr. Bob Nichols

Symptoms of Child Abuse

These are symptoms that everyone needs to know... symptoms of child abuse.
Series
Series
Spiritual Fathering
Spiritual Fathering

Dr. Bob Nichols

Ten Truths To Spiritual Fathering

Spiritual Fathering is different from discipleship, mentoring, or coaching. This paper examines ten truths that comprise the discipline known as "Spiritual Fathering." Fathering is the vehicle that God uses to pass "inheritance" from one to another therefore is key to reaching Destiny.
Heart Issues Messages
Heart Issues Messages

Dr. Bob Nichols

The Communication Dance

This message describes the two basic motivations to communication... (1) to make your point... or, (2) to understand the other person.

Dr. Bob Nichols

Therapy and Abuse

This message discusses the abuses that occur within counseling & therapy

Dr. Bob Nichols

Trauma Knotts

Traumas frequently result in sensory triggers which can revisit the trauma... in a sort of "flashback" the previous "feelings" are revisited when a particular "trigger" is pulled.

Dr. Bob Nichols

Understanding An Offense

UAO

Dr. Bob Nichols

What is conduct disorder?

What is conduct disorder?